Christ-Centered | Genuine | Adventurous
Meet Silas
Silas is the kind of man who approaches life with purpose, joy, and a spirit of adventure. His deep love for God and zest for life naturally draw people to him.
With a warm, engaging personality and a calm demeanor, he’s someone you can count on —whether as a friend, colleague, or lifelong partner.
Grounded in faith and focused on building a balanced life, Silas knows how to cherish the little moments along the way.
Now, he’s ready to begin the next chapter of his journey—this time, with his better half.
“Tenacity and patience are the traits that set me apart. I believe every effort succeeds in its own time, and I don’t jump to conclusions until I’m sure every possible step has been taken to achieve the best outcome.”
Silas
The Silas Advantage
What makes him a rare find
A Faithful Foundation
Silas isn’t your typical 'Sunday Christian.' His life is anchored in Christ, and he strives to honor God in everything he does — from his career and friendships to the small, day-to-day details.
Raised as a pastor’s kid, Silas spent countless hours leading worship, singing in the choir, playing drums, debating, engaging in apologetics, having fun, and being active in the church — all of which shaped him into who he is today.
But what really sets Silas apart is that he doesn’t just talk about his faith; he lives it. When he noticed he was ‘seeking the honor of men’ instead of Christ’s, he made the difficult choice to step away from music ministry to focus on his walk with God.
In a world where values often shift, Silas remains steady, grounded, and completely committed to the timeless truth of God’s Word.
A Christian Entrepreneur
Silas is a self-made entrepreneur who transitioned from structural engineering to owning a thriving construction business with a close friend, which currently spans South India.
Unlike many who separate their professional and spiritual lives, Silas integrates his faith into every decision, seeking God’s guidance as he aspires to expand the business nationwide.
He embodies the modern Christian professional— tenacious, principled, and unapologetically faith-driven. For Silas, success isn’t measured by financial achievements alone. His perspective on money reflects wisdom and maturity, seeing it as “just a small fragment in a glorious life,”
The Multifaceted Man
With long hair that harkens back to his college music band days and a wardrobe filled with sleek black and minimalist colors, Silas has a style that's effortlessly cool and comfortable. When he's not running his business, you'll find him drumming out some beats, strumming his guitar, or taking spontaneous long drives.
Fitness for Silas isn’t about punishing gym sessions—it's about staying active, whether it's enjoying a game of badminton or taking evening walks with music in his ears.
A podcast lover, avid reader, and curious explorer of everything from interior design to apologetics, Silas is a rare breed of modern Christian man. He's just as comfortable discussing business strategies, diving into spiritual conversations, or whipping up something new in the kitchen.
Emotional Wisdom
Silas handles stress with quiet wisdom, relying on simple strategies like keeping expectations low and finding peace in long, therapeutic drives. Recognizing that anger is sin, he has learned to master his emotions with grace and depth, guided by the Holy Spirit. The loss of his mother in 2021 deepened his empathy and strengthened his resilience.
When it comes to conflict resolution, Silas prioritizes understanding over winning. He avoids humiliating others by demanding apologies and is humble enough to apologize when he’s in the wrong.
Silas communicates assertively and confidently, always respecting others’ opinions. While he doesn’t yield to stubborn or unreasonable demands, he listens to options presented politely and respectfully.
“Silas is the ultimate reliable friend—straightforward, trustworthy, practical, and always fun to be around."
- what his friends say about him
Family Background and Roots
Silas comes from a rich Christian heritage, with his grandfather founding their church and laying a strong spiritual foundation.
His father, a hardworking businessman, rarely said “no” to his children and fostered a loving environment, while his mother (a Bible college graduate who led women’s ministry at church) created a home where faith was more than just Sunday talk.
Silas’s “coolest brother ever,” Joshua, works for the Bible Society and now lives separately in Bangalore after marriage.
Growing up, Silas was surrounded by music, church activities, and lots of fun. But the loss of his mother was a profound turning point, revealing not only the depth of his own faith but also brought his close-knit family even closer together.
The Woman he’s Praying For
Silas’s ideal match is a woman who has a genuine, vibrant relationship with Jesus Christ—someone who authentically lives out her faith and embraces the biblical roles within marriage. For him, denomination isn’t a factor, but a born-again, Spirit-filled life is essential.
What truly matters to Silas is her character. He’s drawn to someone with integrity, a deep respect for others, and a heart that desires to build a family that honors God. While physical attraction and a solid career are certainly appreciated, they’re not deal-breakers—just nice bonuses.
Her Vision of Marriage
Silas is grateful that his parents, despite coming from traditional Indian joint families, instilled in him a foundational biblical principle of marriage: that a man must "leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife." He strives to follow their example by prioritizing God’s word over tradition and personal preferences.
Silas believes that husbands and wives are equal in God's eyes, each with distinct but equally important roles. Inspired by his father’s example as a loving provider and head of the household, Silas views the man’s role as leading the family alongside his spouse, respecting each other, raising godly children, and submitting to Christ as the ultimate head.
“Off-work days? Resting at home, catching up with loved ones, cooking something new, and of course, always up for a spontaneous long drive.”
Silas
Vital Stats
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15th May 1988
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Current:
Bangalore, India
Preferred:
Bangalore, India -
M.E/M.Tech in Structural Engineering
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Never Married
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Christian / Assemblies of God
Open to other denominations as long as the person is a born-again Christian, obeys God’s Word and leads a Spirit-filled life. -
English, Tamil, Hindi, and Kannada
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175 (5’ 10”)
75 Kg -
Meat-lover, enjoys home-cooked meals, and has a passion for cooking
Enjoys exploring new restaurants
Non-alcoholic and non-smoking
Values a healthy lifestyle
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Playing drums
A little bit of guitar
Loves music, movies, shopping, podcasts and reading
Listening to sermons/apologetic debates
Could your search for a godly husband end here?
If you're a godly woman seeking a committed Christian, a driven entrepreneur, and a man of wisdom and humility, Silas may just be the one you've been praying for!